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> <channel><title>Comments on: Gay Dosti Hum Nahee Todenge</title> <atom:link href="http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/</link> <description>Crossing Borders Crossing Cultures</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:20:00 -0500</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <item><title>By: Gaurav</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6910</link> <dc:creator>Gaurav</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 24 May 2006 05:29:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6910</guid> <description>No I never did anything like that.
For that matter I have never killed a villain or happen to have andhi ma. :-D
Panvel is boiling hot, but it can&#039;t be worse than texas ;-)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No I never did anything like that.<br
/> For that matter I have never killed a villain or happen to have andhi ma. :-D</p><p>Panvel is boiling hot, but it can&#8217;t be worse than texas ;-)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrix</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6872</link> <dc:creator>Patrix</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2006 15:48:30 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6872</guid> <description>&lt;strong&gt;Gaurav&lt;/strong&gt;, melodrama is when the villain makes a long speech instead of just shooting the tied up hero, or when the mother and sister often constrained by poverty turn on the waterworks, or when the heroine makes a sad attempt at not liking the ruffian hero before eventually falling for him. Crying all night and making rotis for your supposedly best friend is simply gay. Go back and look at your friendships...did you do the things with your best friend that Amitabh and Amjad do in Yaarana? If you did, then I support your right to adopt :)
BTW, weather is Panvel is great? My brother just told me that he is boiling alive.
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Confused&lt;/strong&gt;, don&#039;t join my parents movement which has been strongly resisted for the past couple of years.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Gaurav</strong>, melodrama is when the villain makes a long speech instead of just shooting the tied up hero, or when the mother and sister often constrained by poverty turn on the waterworks, or when the heroine makes a sad attempt at not liking the ruffian hero before eventually falling for him. Crying all night and making rotis for your supposedly best friend is simply gay. Go back and look at your friendships&#8230;did you do the things with your best friend that Amitabh and Amjad do in Yaarana? If you did, then I support your right to adopt :)</p><p>BTW, weather is Panvel is great? My brother just told me that he is boiling alive.<br
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/> Confused</strong>, don&#8217;t join my parents movement which has been strongly resisted for the past couple of years.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: confused</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6871</link> <dc:creator>confused</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2006 15:39:51 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6871</guid> <description>:) Gaurav
Patrix needs a break from the &#039;&#039;oh are you gay america&#039;&#039;.
Lets start a &#039;&#039;Pat go home&#039;&#039; movement. :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>:) Gaurav</p><p>Patrix needs a break from the &#8221;oh are you gay america&#8221;.</p><p>Lets start a &#8221;Pat go home&#8221; movement. :)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Gaurav</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6864</link> <dc:creator>Gaurav</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2006 13:09:11 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6864</guid> <description>Come on !
Yarana was just typical over the top melodramatic bollywood fare.
You are imagining too many things.
This is just obsession of yanks to looks for gays everywhere. I find it ridiculous that two males can be langotiya yaar only at the risk of being accused of sexually involved relationship.
Contrariwise suppose if one were to state something like X (a boy) and Y (a girl) are too friendly which must mean they have a physical relationship, what would be your reaction.
This is age of insanity.
I second (or third) Bloghopper and Confused, come back to Panvel the weather is perfect ;-).
Regards</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Come on !</p><p>Yarana was just typical over the top melodramatic bollywood fare.</p><p>You are imagining too many things.</p><p>This is just obsession of yanks to looks for gays everywhere. I find it ridiculous that two males can be langotiya yaar only at the risk of being accused of sexually involved relationship.</p><p>Contrariwise suppose if one were to state something like X (a boy) and Y (a girl) are too friendly which must mean they have a physical relationship, what would be your reaction.</p><p>This is age of insanity.</p><p>I second (or third) Bloghopper and Confused, come back to Panvel the weather is perfect ;-).</p><p>Regards</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: megha</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6859</link> <dc:creator>megha</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2006 01:45:04 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6859</guid> <description>LOL @ what ash said.
:D</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL @ what ash said.</p><p>:D</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrix</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6858</link> <dc:creator>Patrix</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:39:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6858</guid> <description>&lt;strong&gt;Chandni&lt;/strong&gt;, I agree and I have admitted right at the outset that I may sound presumptuous. It can also be a matter of changing times and different perspectives. But all said and done, Yaarana was definitely gay. Men bond, as you said, over pulling each other&#039;s leg and making fun and not by singing songs to their friendships and crying late into the night. It is just different for men and women, as you agree too.
&lt;strong&gt;Bongo&lt;/strong&gt;, it may seem like I am canvassing for the movie but go see Yaarana again now and I bet you will be laughing your ass off. and of course, no censorship is advocated anywhere. If it makes you laugh, it must be good.
&lt;strong&gt;Ash&lt;/strong&gt;, I bet you would be more than happy to leave chapati-making to someone else.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Chandni</strong>, I agree and I have admitted right at the outset that I may sound presumptuous. It can also be a matter of changing times and different perspectives. But all said and done, Yaarana was definitely gay. Men bond, as you said, over pulling each other&#8217;s leg and making fun and not by singing songs to their friendships and crying late into the night. It is just different for men and women, as you agree too.</p><p><strong>Bongo</strong>, it may seem like I am canvassing for the movie but go see Yaarana again now and I bet you will be laughing your ass off. and of course, no censorship is advocated anywhere. If it makes you laugh, it must be good.</p><p><strong>Ash</strong>, I bet you would be more than happy to leave chapati-making to someone else.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ash</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6857</link> <dc:creator>Ash</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:37:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6857</guid> <description>Well, I was giving Yaarana the benefit of the doubt. But when Amjad Khan goes insane and is cured only after eating Amitabh&lt;em&gt; ke haath ka bana hua chapatti&lt;/em&gt;, I gave up !
But hey, if its not gay and just Indian friendship, then that&#039;s good enough for me. Then us Indian women can leve the chapatti making to our men&#039;s best friends.. what say ? :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I was giving Yaarana the benefit of the doubt. But when Amjad Khan goes insane and is cured only after eating Amitabh<em> ke haath ka bana hua chapatti</em>, I gave up !</p><p>But hey, if its not gay and just Indian friendship, then that&#8217;s good enough for me. Then us Indian women can leve the chapatti making to our men&#8217;s best friends.. what say ? :)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: BongoPondit</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6856</link> <dc:creator>BongoPondit</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:30:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6856</guid> <description>I can&#039;t remember &lt;em&gt;Yaarana&lt;/em&gt; - but I agree that the bath scene in &lt;em&gt;Silsila&lt;/em&gt; certainly had gay overtones.
Remember the whispers about two-three years ago that Karan Johar is gay dunno what became of it or if they were true at all but I thought he took a great dig at such rumours in &lt;em&gt;Kal Ho Na Ho&lt;/em&gt; - with those scenes between SRK and Saif :-)
Now, Patrix - lets not practice censorship here - &#039;out&#039; with them pictures. ;-)
Finally, as with so many things in life, Seinfeld said it best: &quot;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tv.com/seinfeld/the-outing/episode/2297/summary.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Not that there is anything wrong with it!&lt;/a&gt;&quot;</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t remember <em>Yaarana</em> &#8211; but I agree that the bath scene in <em>Silsila</em> certainly had gay overtones.</p><p>Remember the whispers about two-three years ago that Karan Johar is gay dunno what became of it or if they were true at all but I thought he took a great dig at such rumours in <em>Kal Ho Na Ho</em> &#8211; with those scenes between SRK and Saif :-)</p><p>Now, Patrix &#8211; lets not practice censorship here &#8211; &#8216;out&#8217; with them pictures. ;-)</p><p>Finally, as with so many things in life, Seinfeld said it best: &#8220;<a
href="http://www.tv.com/seinfeld/the-outing/episode/2297/summary.html" rel="nofollow">Not that there is anything wrong with it!</a>&#8220;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: chandni</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6855</link> <dc:creator>chandni</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:29:30 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6855</guid> <description>Hey patrix,
I think a little of this thought aslo comes from one&#039;s own notions of personal space.
For instance..its pretty common for women to dress/change in front of other womena...say in hostels or with roommates.
But someone who is uncomfortable doingt hat might fid it too &quot;intimate&quot; or weird.
Also, DCH at least was very real...arent guys like that when in college? Back slapping..pulling each other&#039;s leg and generally having fun??
And Yarana, its a diff generation altogether, though I still feel there was nothing gay abt it!!!
Still, this was a good read and an interesting perspective
:D</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey patrix,</p><p>I think a little of this thought aslo comes from one&#8217;s own notions of personal space.</p><p>For instance..its pretty common for women to dress/change in front of other womena&#8230;say in hostels or with roommates.</p><p>But someone who is uncomfortable doingt hat might fid it too &#8220;intimate&#8221; or weird.</p><p>Also, DCH at least was very real&#8230;arent guys like that when in college? Back slapping..pulling each other&#8217;s leg and generally having fun??</p><p>And Yarana, its a diff generation altogether, though I still feel there was nothing gay abt it!!!</p><p>Still, this was a good read and an interesting perspective<br
/> :D</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrix</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6854</link> <dc:creator>Patrix</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:19:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6854</guid> <description>&lt;strong&gt;Alpha&lt;/strong&gt;, you wouldn&#039;t !!!!! $%&amp;*@
&lt;strong&gt;Bloghopper&lt;/strong&gt;, I agree that I didn&#039;t find anything gay about Jai-Veeru or DCH trio although some ppl did murmur something to that effect. But trust me, see &lt;em&gt;Yaarana&lt;/em&gt; and tell me Amitabh-Amjad friendship is just friendship.
&lt;strong&gt;Confused&lt;/strong&gt;, I know its different cultures and just a matter of perspective but sometimes Bollywood movies show male friendships in ways that never exist in the real world. You must agree that men and women bond with people of their gender in different ways. I was simply alluding to that. Now go and see Yaarana and we&#039;ll talk about it again.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Alpha</strong>, you wouldn&#8217;t !!!!! $%&#038;*@</p><p><strong>Bloghopper</strong>, I agree that I didn&#8217;t find anything gay about Jai-Veeru or DCH trio although some ppl did murmur something to that effect. But trust me, see <em>Yaarana</em> and tell me Amitabh-Amjad friendship is just friendship.</p><p><strong>Confused</strong>, I know its different cultures and just a matter of perspective but sometimes Bollywood movies show male friendships in ways that never exist in the real world. You must agree that men and women bond with people of their gender in different ways. I was simply alluding to that. Now go and see Yaarana and we&#8217;ll talk about it again.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: confused</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6853</link> <dc:creator>confused</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 21:07:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6853</guid> <description>Patrix,
Its just too many years in America! Go home dude :)
I second blog hopper. I found nothing gay about their friendship too. I agree taking a bath together is a little gayish but in India we are used to putting arms around each other or holding hands. Now in this country, even if I slightly touch any of my Amru friends, they seem to be uncomfortable, even if the touch is inadverent.
Different cultures  yaar. You are reading too much into it.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patrix,</p><p>Its just too many years in America! Go home dude :)</p><p>I second blog hopper. I found nothing gay about their friendship too. I agree taking a bath together is a little gayish but in India we are used to putting arms around each other or holding hands. Now in this country, even if I slightly touch any of my Amru friends, they seem to be uncomfortable, even if the touch is inadverent.</p><p>Different cultures  yaar. You are reading too much into it.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: bloghopper</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6849</link> <dc:creator>bloghopper</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 19:58:23 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6849</guid> <description>I never found anything gay about jai-veeru or the dil chahta hai trio. Of-course you are corrupted :) Its all in the mind of the beholder.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never found anything gay about jai-veeru or the dil chahta hai trio. Of-course you are corrupted :) Its all in the mind of the beholder.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: alpha</title><link>http://www.ipatrix.com/1348/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6848</link> <dc:creator>alpha</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 19:56:19 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.ipatrix.com/2006/05/22/gay-dosti-hum-nahee-todenge/#comment-6848</guid> <description>wonder if i shud publish that photo of you and yogi.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wonder if i shud publish that photo of you and yogi.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
