June 13th, 2004

More the Merrier?

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The other day I ran into a guy from college. This guy had an infamous reputation for double-timing two girls and as his luck would have it, it was taken quite well by both of them. One of them actually was willing to overlook his discretion and take him back. I couldn’t believe my ears when I had heard it first. Mind you, the girls aren’t bimbettes by traditional standards. They look pretty decent and I suppose, above-averagely intelligent. But the right attitude and self-respect lies miles above their heads, at least by my standards.

But this is just one of the examples I have come across. Without venturing too far into making generalization, guys with not-so-impeccable reputations have somehow managed to hold their own regards their love life. Multiple relationships, simultaneous or not are touted as examples of their bravado and machismo. However despicable it might seem to us normal folks, such people still have a good night’s sleep and end up living happily ever after with their final love of life. When I see such bizarre skewness in karma, I seriously doubt the choice of my path of waiting it out for the right one.

The topic popped up again when me and another friend – both single talked about it on a Saturday night sipping non-alcoholic drinks. Is there at least an iota of truth in the adage that nice guys finish last or is it just that girls, even the sensible ones prefer wild guys? Or is merely luck a dominant factor in working relationships out? We did finally console ourselves by concluding that the journey is much more interesting and rewarding than the destination. It also greatly matters if you arrive there with your principles intact without any false allusions to the multiple entries on your love meter. Guys with just one love in their life might be considering weird or lucky depending on what thinking cap you are wearing.

But everything else boils down to the ultimate question of what women want and it doesn’t stop there. It further leads to if they will do what it takes to get what they really want. I don’t want to sound as if I am trying to shift the blame on women but they are much more empowered than they think.

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