July 20th, 2007

Sex Education Done Wrong

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Sex education has been making the news lately; not that it never fails to when it pops up in conversations. Barack Obama was at the Planned Parenthood Conference and remarked that sex education was the right thing to do for kindergarteners and added that it should be age-appropriate and meant primarily to help kids guard against potential pedophiles. While if the government should be involved in such an endeavor is a different matter, crackpot Romney spun it to make it sound as if Obama was asking to teach tiny tots about sexual intercourse which the Republican base was only too happy to lap it up.

Unfortunately, Romney couldn’t understand the gravity of Obama’s concerns considering he made those remarks only a day after the courts order the LA Catholic Archdiocese to cough up an astounding amount of $600 million to nearly 500 victims of sexual abuse. So you can imagine the problem of child sex abuse is no laughing matter considering the vanguards of morality are involved in perpetrating such crimes. I’m sure this is just the tip of the iceberg and there exist thousands of cases that go unreported or even unmentioned. So would sex education to warn children as old as 5 years old be useful in preventing such crimes? Perhaps but as long as the parents take it upon themselves to do the teaching. I’m not sure sex education for children that young in school would go down quite that well.

Unfortunately in India, parents shy away from sex education of any kind and only a small minority of schools offer sex education and even then, it is taught only in the latter years to giggling and red-faced teenagers. I am not even sure the teachers are doing it right. In fact, I’m quite sure that the health checkups that we are subjected to in schools are also at best a token gesture and do not achieve anything substantial. Just today, I came across this horrific news in an prominent Delhi School [via India Uncut]:

Students of Class VI and VII at Sardar Patel Vidyalaya had been called for a medical check-up earlier this week and doctors asked them to undress.

The girls and boys — most of them aged 11 or 12 — complained that their “private parts” were “measured” to check whether the “growth was natural”.

Although hardly sex education, this news is wrong at so many levels. Not only is it intrusive at a personal level but also reflects misguided notions of health by the so-called doctors. Can we ever get it right? Have you ever had appropriate sex education in your schools?

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7 Responses to “Sex Education Done Wrong”

  1. Supremus Says:

    Have you ever had appropriate sex education in your schools?

    – I have been lucky hehe :) Ironically it was a spaniard “father” in a catholic school who taught us biology and sex. I think they were some of the most amazing lessons he could teach us - there were no pretentions, no “I will teach girls and boys seperately” shit and no “read for yourself” shit. It was laid out to us, bare and open, but done in such a practical and informative way.

    I was actually surprised later on in life learning how pathetic sex education was in schools - I’ve been lucky :)

  2. Patrix Says:

    Supremus, I guess you were the few lucky ones. So has it helped any? ;)

  3. confused Says:

    Pat,

    Minor correction. The Court hasn’t ordered them to pay 600 million, rather they have settled it out of court.

    Incidentally, I was in Sardar Patel for 3-4 years. Never knew they could mess up this bad.

  4. Sakshi Says:

    My school at least had attempted to teach it but failed miserable. The teacher was uncomfortable and hence we kids were too. And yes, we were separated into gender based groups and taught by the same gender teacher and still, we got nothing out of it.

  5. Patrix Says:

    Confused, sorry! Will fix that. So it was your alma mater, eh? Hope you didn’t have such ‘probing’ health checkups during your time…heh.

    Sakshi, My school(s) didn’t even have that. But thankfully everything turned out just fine :)

  6. bongopondit Says:

    Bit late to the discussion - my school never had any sex education either. We learned about stuff the usual way: Sidney Sheldon, Irving Wallace, adult mags, cousins etc. :-)

    Btw, can’t say I am thrilled with the huge pink Ads that’s coming up on this page that promises to calculate my love quotient.

  7. Patrix Says:

    Bongo, it is never too late. Well, at least not until the comments shut down automatically after 21 days :) And I am surprised that we got our sex ed pretty much the same way…right down to the authors :)

    And yup…am fiddling (as usual) with the sidebar ‘goodies’. Will remove the edgier ads.

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